This week we learned about many factors that can have a negative impact on a child's development. As I learned about these factors, I was forced to think of the factors that may have had a negative impact on my own development. As an African American female, obviously I was very aware of Racism and Sexism at a very early age. While I have had some incidents in my life, none of them have had a severe impact on my development. Or rather, my Mother never let my gender or the color of my skin define who I would become or play a role in my learning development. As an adult, I see racism as one of the many unpleasant aspects of life. There will always be ignorant individuals in the world, and I pray that I can raise my own children as my mother raised me....to rise above it.
The most prominent type of stress in my life has most likely been disease. As an epileptic asthmatic, I have had to adjust my life according to the illnesses that effect me. In an attempt to alleviate my asthma symptoms, I shunned outdoor play and became a bookworm who preferred adult conversation (oftentimes the librarian or English teacher was my favorite person at school). Due to my studious nature, my language and reading skills developed very early, and I advanced in all manners of written and verbal communication as well as literature.
As an epileptic child, I knew that as I grew up I would be discouraged to do certain things on my own. Thus, I became fiercely independent in any way that I could, and always tried to assert myself. On the flipside, I was a late bloomer in terms of driving and living on my own (both of which I didn't do until my 20s).
Compared to what some children deal with in terms of disease and racism around the world, I realize that I was very blessed to experience such an upbringing. To think that some children are killed without a second thought because of their race or nationality, or die from old-world diseases breaks my heart. A year ago, a group called Watoto came to my church and gave a rousing performance to raise funds for children in Uganda. The children in this country often suffer from a lack of nutrition, abuse and little to no education. Th Watoto Organization is committed to taking care of as many children, often orphaned, as possible and giving them the basic necessities needed to survive and become thriving productive members of society. The work that this organization does is so inspirational, and offers a glimmer of hope for children who suffer in the world.
If you're interested in Watoto, you can find the link to their official website below:


