This week in class, we have been learning
about family diversity, cultures and family systems theory. In order to gain a
better perspective on what we’ve learned we have been encouraged to consider
the following scenario and answer the accompanying questions:
A major catastrophe has almost completely devastated the
infrastructure of your country. The emergency government has decided that the
surviving citizens will be best served if they are evacuated to other countries
willing to take refugees. You and your immediate family are among the survivors
of this catastrophic event. However, you have absolutely no input into the
final destination or in any other evacuation details. You are told that your host
country’s culture is completely different from your own, and that you might
have to stay there permanently. You are further told that, in addition to one
change of clothes, you can only take 3 small items with you. You decide to take
three items that you hold dear and that represent your family culture.
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A description of the three items you would choose
If I had to evacuate to the aforementioned country I would take a
Bible with a mini photo album of my family inside, my wedding rings, and my childhood
stuffed animal “Mama Doll”.
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How you would explain to others what each of these items means to
you
I would take the Bible because I need to have a connection to my
faith. I would sneak the mini photo album inside so that I can have visual
memories and representation of my family and be able to point members out to my
young daughters. I would take my wedding rings because they represent the
beginning and creation of my current family. Also, they are a nearly
indestructible item that I can pass on to my children. Lastly, my ‘Mama Doll”
is a representation of my childhood family structure and would give my children
comfort during their childhood, currently.
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Your feelings if, upon arrival, you were told that you could only
keep one personal item and have to give up the other two items you brought with
you
Obviously I would feel heartbroken. However, I would retain my
wedding rings. At the time of my wedding they represented my husband and I
coming together, creating a new family, and our hopes and dreams for the
future. In the midst of a national catastrophe, that meaning would be more relevant
than ever.
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Any insights you gained about yourself, your family culture,
diversity, and/or cultural differences in general, as a result of this exercise.
As a result of this exercise, I see how
important my new young family is to me, and just how much I’ve grown and
changed since becoming a wife and mother.